You know when you’re telling a story and you start with, “remember that time…?” It recently dawned on me how bittersweet that is.
Over chocolate banana pudding, my friend and I started stalking people on Instagram. Let’s face it, that is one of the “hobbies” almost everyone has taken up since the rise of social media. Now, in order to chop off some guilt, we tried to be cultured by looking at photos about travel, food, and fashion. In short, pretty much everything that everyone ever uploads. As our selfish nature would have it, the conversation went from “he’s been everywhere, I wonder what he does for a living?” to “I know, I used to bake a lot.”
Soon after, we started talking about things we used to do but couldn’t anymore because, well, “life.” I say life with quotation marks because as an average person, I would say majority of the populace fall into this category, life is not exactly what we envision it to be. Ideally speaking, of course. Our everyday existence is made up of routine brought about by the one thing that drives all of our needs, survival.
Food, hygiene, sleep, work. That sums up “life” for us. At the end of the day, after all that was needed to be done, we barely have time, nor energy to do something that we really want. Sometimes we’re just too afraid to deviate from what we’re used to. There’s comfort in predictability. Hence stories that start with “remember that time…?”